Brenda Clayton

Brenda Lee Clayton

Monday, February 22nd, 1965 - Thursday, July 9th, 2020
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FEBRUARY 22, 1965 – 2020
Surrounded by family, Brenda Lee Clayton passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 9, 2020 at Sakura House, Woodstock at the age of 55 years. Beloved wife of Randy Hildebrant of Tillsonburg. Proud and loving mother of Warren (Brittany) Martin of North Vancouver, and Jake (Jelissa) Martin of St. Thomas. Loving stepmom to Cody (Breena) Hildebrant and Brooke Hildebrant of Tillsonburg. Devoted daughter to Mary Jane Clayton and loving sister to Darryl Clayton of St. Thomas. Proud aunt to Cheri Mackay and Rick Mackay. Also survived by all of Randy’s extended family. Predeceased by her father Edward Clayton (2012) and sister Barbara Mackay (2012). Brenda nursed tirelessly for 30 years in the burn unit, trauma unit, Cami Health Centre and returned to the emergency department at St. Thomas Elgin General Hospital where she loved to give support, compassion and respect to all she knew. Brenda loved caring for and “motherizing” her family and being a homemaker. She enjoyed walking her dogs in the woods, camping up north and using her Nikon to take photos of nature. She will be missed by cheerful friends and co-workers who contributed to her happiness. Strength and understanding in this beautiful journey called life. She will also be missed by fur babies Lady Di and Max. Due to the Coronavirus, there will be no Celebration of Life but Brenda wanted to remind everyone that everyday is a celebration of life and to live it to the fullest. Private family inurnment will take place at the Delmer Cemetery. Memorial donations to Bethel Pentecostal Church, Ostrander’s Veterinary Clinic’s Farley Foundation or Sakura House would be appreciated by Brenda’s family and may be made by contacting Ostrander’s Funeral Home, 43 Bidwell Street, Tillsonburg (519-842-5221) who have been entrusted with the arrangements.
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    Delmer Cemetery
    312242 Dereham Line
    Delmer, ON
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Emily Coghill

Posted at 03:55pm
I’m so sad to hear that Brenda passed. She was such a sweet person and you could tell that she really cared about people. Sending strength and love to her family ❤️
-Emily Manning

Nicola Marshall

Posted at 02:50pm
I was so sorry to read of Brendas passing, I used to bump into her with my dog When she was walking Max many years ago behind the soccer field, such a lovely lady.

Linda Karn

Posted at 03:33pm
Brenda was such a beautiful person. I was a volunteer at STEGH in the E/D and so enjoyed my shifts working with Brenda. Sorry to hear of her passing.

Linda Balthes

Posted at 04:58pm
Randy and family,
Our condolences for your loss. We wish we had been able to know Brenda more.
As new neighbours she made us feel very welcomed into the neighborhood. May the memories you have help you through this difficult time
Bob and Linda Balthes

The Wright Family

Posted at 03:04pm
With deepest sympathy,
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